Active listening I thought I had a post somewhere on basic active listening. It seems not. Active listening is often… Read more Anger: I am angry so that I am important?
When we are outraged, we don’t make a lot of sense I went to a fairly “diverse” university during a… Read more Find the courage to apologise and invite by understanding the deep hurt
Hate is such an aggressive word Some time ago, I worked with people who used the word “hate”, a lot. … Read more The positive psychology of anger and hate
I spent 6 years’ training as a psychologist and status and pecking order were rarely mentioned. Yet, both status and… Read more Shh! We are talking about status and pecking order and noone must hear!
I am 99% persuaded by positive psychology, largely because I thought like a positive psychologist long before it was invented. … Read more 5 Little Understood Ways to be Resilient in Hard Times
An irritated face at my door Some one came in to my office and said to me: can I give… Read more Can I give you some feedback?
For fear of ever losing it, I must quote The Bumble Bee word-for-word here. “Imagine you are the leader of… Read more Active listening