You need chaos in your soul to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
German philosopher (1844 – 1900)
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It is not innovation that matters, it is agreement. And we might need innovation to reach agreement.
You need chaos in your soul to give birth to a dancing star.
Friedrich Nietzsche
German philosopher (1844 – 1900)
I’m interested in anyone else working on job design and happiness. Do let me know if you are!
I was sitting in the office of a thirties-something – a young, dynamic and intelligent man.
We noted that in many firms there is a horrible gap between the Baby Boomers and the next level. Sometimes there is a gap of 20 to 30 years. Do you see that gap in your company? Grey hair – a long gap – slightly inexperienced manager?
If there is any succession planning, it is certainly not evident.
The breaks in the chain are largely a function of demographics – the number of babies who were born.
Baby Boomers, as the name suggests, are many. They are also used to dominating politics with their votes, and dictating taste with their purchasing power.
Gen X are few. Generally, while Boomers had 3 siblings, they had none. They are outnumbered by Boomers at least 2:1. Known as the latch-key kids, they are used to cleaning up the world after the Boomers have swanned-through. They are the unseen generation.
Gen Y are more numerous and are having more children than themselves.
The gap between those in charge now, and those in charge tomorrow, is horrible. It even became an issue in the American Presidential election. “Obama is too young (47!) and has too little experience”, people cried. The gulf is much bigger in business.
I wanted to know how my young friend thought change would come about.
He smiled and said: “One day, one of them will go out to play golf. And his friends will follow.”
All over in day?
How will the mantle of leadership be passed from one generation to another in your industry? And what will be the consequences?
Chaos from lack of skill and exposure? A breath of fresh air?
What are the elements of succession planning with these unusual demographics before us?
How will the generation shift affect you? Good or bad? And if it is sudden, will it be in your favor, or not?
UPDATE: Perhaps we can begin by not slagging off Gen Y, be reopening management training schools and having explicit policies to pass on the mantle of leadership?
4 CommentsIn My Friends and Other Animals, 10 year old Gerald Durrell taught me the most important trick of leadership.
He wrote a list of everything he wanted for his birthday, divided it up, and sent everyone to their favorite shops – his sister to buy cotton wool and pins for his butterfly collection, his author brother to a book shop, and his outdoorsy brother for supplies like formalin.
In all the years that I have spent teaching and consulting, I don’t think I have come across a better description of leadership.
What lifts my soul? And what lifts the spirits of my companions?
What do they like to do, and what brings the light to their eyes?
What do I find fantastically good about the people I am with?
What do they do with ease and grace? What do I love to watch? What do I think they do magnificently well?
What brings out my smile and an impulse to applaud?
Even when they have been irritating me horribly, I must bring myself back to their story and their attributes that bring so much pleasure and opportunity to my life.
What makes me want to clap my hands in pleasure? What can I say about this person to someone else?
What am I so confident that they will do so well because they always have.
Will I be watching as events unfold? Do I care enough – or was I just ranting?
And what will be watching? Can I play it through in detail in my mind and will it hold my attention as events unfold?
What information can I pass on to each person that will help them do better what they do so well? How can I keep the light in our eyes?
Is this the most important project for me right now?
“. . . this is all, this is perfect, this is it . . .”
Does my project raise my compassion and my ease with the world?
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Words from my friend Anand Raj . . .
I had a great sense of relief when I read those words. But in other times and other places these words would have driven me to suicide. They would have heightened my panic. I found the place unacceptable and any conversation I had with anyone needed to begin from that sentiment.
Because I’ve had these soul-destroying moments in past lives, I have deep doubts about some aspects of positive psychology.
I suspect the best that a positive psychologist can do when someone is deeply miserable is to AVOID theorizing.
I suspect our theory is little more than our distaste for someone else’s misery. So our garrulous ways add to the alienation and horror felt by our companion. And thus, is unethical if not immoral.
We need to walk-the-talk and keep the conversation on every aspect of the situation that is positive. Gradually, we might be able to help a person out of their dark place.
And when life is dark for us too, maybe the best we can do is to exercise leadership.
It is not helpful, IMHO, to deny that we are in a dark place. We need to walk-the-talk, pay active attention to real threats, and take active steps to protect ourselves. We need to focus on positive aspects – not to cheer people up but because of the genuine merits of those things – and highlight whatever is under our control.
From that appreciation, we may be able to move forward.
But leadership must be active and sincere – even from a psychologist working for money. It’s not enough to talk about the people we lead. We must share the journey.
The post I had planned for this morning is more cheerful. I’ll post that this evening!
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