A good way to test a psychological theory is to ask: does it “do something to you” or does it help you to find “your place in the family of things” (Mary Oliver’s Wild Geese)?
UPDATE: I saw today a post on what we type into Google. It seems that when we type “is it wrong to”, we are making a personal decision.
When we type “is it unethical to”, we are talking about nothing in particular. Or at best, what other people should be doing!
Today I wrote a post about your psychologist being 100% on you side. Make sure they are!